stupid, stupid boys

So I mentioned the string of dates with eharmony guy that got cancelled. I decided to give him one last chance. We were supposed to go to dinner and a movie this past saturday. Well I didnt' hear from him all day, so I texted him at 2:00 and said, "are you picking me up or are we meeting there?" no response until 7:00 pm (our reservations were at 7:30), saying "at the hospital, i'll explain later." So i ask if he's ok. Basically, someone bumped the back of his mail truck (he's a mailman) while he was parked, and it's procedure that you have to go to the ER. Now I understand that he had no control over this situation, however, he had been at the ER since 3:00pm, in the waiting room, and had waited to text me until 7. I think that's rude. So he continued to text me all night, and i was pretty short with him. Same thing on Sunday. and this conversation followed.....

him: well...guess i'll just talk to ya when i talk ya

me: i just don't think this is going to work. sorry

him: there was nothing to work...i don't know what you thought... but i wasn't looking for anything with you anymore than friends...i've been seeing someone.
(side note from me-this is bullshit because he texts me every single night, all night, and he is always home watching tv. when exactly is he "seeing someone" when he is in text contact with me all the time? lol. and he is the one who is always texting me saying he wants to cuddle, blah blah blah. does someone say that when they are seeing someone? freakin cracks me up. and if he's seeing someone, why is he going to dinner and a movie with a girl he met on eharmony? riiight.)

me: good for you

him: so what isn't working? i'm sorry i got in a wreck yesterday...next time i'll avoid someone hitting me when i'm not moving to spare your feelings.

me: ok there is no reason to get mean. it's fine. i'm not mad about that. good luck with whoever you are seeing.

him: did you think this was going somewhere? you said friends...so i was going with just friends... i moved on to other stuff... so what's the problem here

me: no problem at all. like i said, good luck. it seemed to me like you were always pushing for more. but ok.

him: i dont think i was. i just thought it'd be fun to hang out. obviously you wanted more.... but sorry... so good luck... and later

me: let me be clear that i did not want more. talk to you later.

him: yeah ok... whatever you say.

so yeah, jerkface! how annoying! i was giving you all the chances buddy. you weren't doing me any favors!

i thought you all would enjoy that story.

way to go me!

I went to my weight watchers meeting today, and I lost 3 pounds! And the coolest thing about this is that it has only been 5 days since my last weigh-in, not 7. See, I went to my first meeting on Monday because I had a half day at work. But I normally can't do that because their latest meeting is at 6 and I don't get off of work until 6:30 on Mondays, so there is a problem. So my normal meeting day will be on Saturdays. Hence, only 5 days since my last weigh-in. I'm proud. My roommate asked me if I took "a large dump" before I went. haha!

P.S. how hot is the "Take Home Chef" aka Curtis Stone? Sooo hot!! Want to touch the hiney! woot woot.

cancelled

the date (or "not date") has been canceled. Apparently he had to cut his aunt's grass?? His brother was supposed to do it but he broke his toe or something, and his aunt was coming home from Texas tomorrow, so it had to be done tonight... whatever. I know he's not lying or anything, but I'm still annoyed. Grrr. Whatever, I'm just annoyed.

day one

I joined weight watchers. I don't remember if I mentioned that. I went to my first meeting, and today was my first day on the point system. It was fine. I honestly at the same way that I eat every other day of the week. I didn't change anything, just to see how many "points" i was eating. I came in one point under my minimum, which is 24. I think that my main problem is that I'll eat super well and then splurge on chinese food or something equally bad for me. Ok, honestly, it's pretty much just chinese food. haha! So anyway, we'll see how that goes too. I won't normally go to my meetings on Mondays b/c the latest one is at 6pm and I don't even get off work until 6:30. So I guess I'll go on Saturdays. I have to say I was surprised that the majority of the people at the meeting were "normal sized" people. Anyway, I hope it goes well.

Tomorrow is the movie "not date" with eharmony guy. Details to follow :)

If anyone is reading, please comment!

easy day

Today I had to go to one of our mother plants this morning at 9:30 am. It lasted til 11:30, I got back to the office, and only had to stay until 1:30 because I had a half day today! Yay! So now I'm home, and I really want to take a nap, but I find myself blogging, taking out garbage, and cleaning instead! I'm ridiculous :) I should relax and enjoy my day. Maybe I'll watch Oprah later. lol.

I think I have a boy coming over to watch a movie sometime this week. See, I might this guy on eharmony (which I think is pretty crappy, by the way) , we went on a date, and it didn't go so well. There really wasn't any connection there. But the thing is, we had talked on the phone for about a week before our date, and we had a great connection! I mean, we would talk on the phone for like 3 hours every night. So I was confused. For our date, we went to watch an Elite 8 Game for the NCAA tourney, b/c my team was playing. He claimed that I paid more attention to the game than I did to him. I guess that could be true because I was really excited for the game. So we've continued to talk a lot through text, and we decided we would hang out again as friends. I suggested that we should just be friends, but he is really pushing for more. So I invited him over this week. We'll see how it goes. I guess it's possible that it was just first date bad luck. But I am sick of being single, I know that!

Ok, I'm off to mop the bathroom floor and the kitchen floor (even though I just mopped the kitchen floor 2 days ago. lol).

I'm back!

I deleted all of my old posts. I just wanted a fresh start. And I had been a total slacker when it came to updating anyway. So here we go, trying again. There really isn't anything that new going on with me. I applied for a Team Coach position at my job. It's a salaried position with a bonus potential of 5% of my yearly salary. Plus it would be 8-5 which would be great. Since I am in school and working full time, it would be great to have an 8-5 schedule because it would leave me time to go to school at night. Right now I am taking an 8am class every day and then working til 8pm at night. It's fine, but the problem is that the rest of the classes I need are only offered mid-afternoon or evening. So I obviously need evening.

I've been a tad bit (seriously, just a tad) annoyed with my roommate lately. She just sleeps all the time! I feel like I take care of almost all of the housework. My dad brought over a lawnmower for us b/c we didn't have one, and he was cutting our grass for us. Well I tried to wake her up so he could show us how to use it (sounds pathetic, I know, but neither of us have cut grass before!). Well anyway, she wouldn't even wake up when he came. So I pretty much know that's going to be all my responsibility too. Eh, I'm just a little annoyed lately. Whatev :)

Love life is....stale as usual. no surprise there.

I promise I'll be better at updating this! Even though nobody really reads it, I don't think! haha